More changes. Hugh Weiler, partner and consummate barkeep at Soif (shown here in a characteristic pose), is off to marry his sweetie Barbara in Sacramento and live happily ever after. The charm, calm, wry sense of humor and stupendous knowledge of wines that Weiler brought to the town’s chic wine bar are, frankly, irreplaceable. Weiler’s Soif colleague Patrice Boyle reassured me that there are plans for Weiler to make frequent and myriad guest appearances at the wine bar’s future events.